Like anything else, planning a wedding can be quite catastrophic when
unorganised. Every couple may find themselves in a dilemma when it comes to organisation; this is caused by the bucket load of questions that come with planning a wedding. However... this page focuses solely on one question, who to invite to your wedding and who not to invite? This tends to be a more common crisis with modern day marriages as both parties are inclined to invite their shopping list of guests (which only results in too many turning up and squabbling over chairs.) Choosing Your Guests To avoid this, begin by categorizing your guests and making two lists. One list consisting of family and friends that are complete 100% invites and the other should consist of those remaining. When completed, take a head count of all those must-invites and compare it with your set guest limit, if there is space, grace a few of those remaining guests with official invites, however if you find the list is still overloaded its evident that more people will have to be cut from the wedding. So far you are probably concerning yourself with how impossible it might seem to cut loved ones out of your special day... but these cuts can be made in a more effective manner. Firstly consider making your wedding adults only, this will immediately remove a large chunk of those overflowing guests and it is YOUR rule so it cannot be put into debate, also inviting business colleagues and co workers is not an obligation and you should not feel liable to do so. You should inform your parents not to encourage any of their associates to attend as it is YOUR wedding and you are distributing the invites, not them. Cutbacks to be made... You may notice by this point that you've made a painful number of cutbacks but still remaining is an overloaded guest list which more loved ones will have to be crossed off. So finally, do not feel pressured into inviting old school/college friends or friends which you know for certain you'll never see again as well as long distant family members who you are not familiar with, this serves no purpose as the extra seats for your wedding could be reserved for those you socialise with on a regular basis. When labelling your cutbacks you may feel your conscience coming into play but always remember a wedding is an expensive event that requires a lot of funding and considering none of your guests will be contributing towards any of the many costs involved you might soon find cutting back on guests simpler than anticipated. This method enables you to invite only those you desire to attend, thus allowing for a more enjoyable wedding with those closest to you. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/7555019
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